![]() For this time, maybe even till the end of march we are like on a “trial” meaning we haven’t said whether we are splitting or not. We are living together plus we are flying next monday on a week vacation to norway. She said she cares for me really deeply and doesn’t want to lose but at the same time she feels like now I’m more of her best friend than a partner and she might want to split up. But from my side i just hoped that after we will fix our problems in our own lives everything will go back to normal. Yes we both have had really hard time outside of the relationship which caused our relationship to be stereotypical and caused few fights. My gf (22) told me few days back that she hasn’t been feeling in love with me (23) for the past month or so. Submitted by Glad_Employment6901 to lonely Ģ023.03.08 13:50 xxbakedkate Almost 3 years together and the love is gone from her side And whenever I make a new connection, I push them away, out of pure self-hatred. I'll seldom ever check my phone to see someone has asked how I am. ![]() All my other so-called friends just appear when they need something. I met someone on a dating site several weeks ago, and I just feel that I don't deserve them, because they're training in an honorable profession. I've had one online relationship, which I lost because I kept beating myself up and eventually told her I felt too guilty being with her. My best friend from college has a chronic condition and doesn't ever feel well enough to meet up, and other than him, my only outlet for social connection was work, and Mass, and whilst I still like to believe in my faith, I can hardly practice it when I feel so low all the time. Whenever I try to make myself feel happy, I resent myself for wasting time, and any sense of enjoyment is eclipsed by anxiety for wanting a temporary escape. In addition, I've been unemployed since Christmas, and I still haven't got an induction date for my new job. All my peers are just about to finish their degrees. And yet I'm expected to study a degree, even though the mere thought of those deadlines makes me nauseous to my stomach. When I did A-Levels, I had to drop my dissertation because I was sat at the laptop for hours, with a plethora of research notes, and I just couldn't put words to paper. In seventeen and a half months, I'll be 22, and yet, I've got no real accomplishments. ![]() I'm 20, and I'm getting anxious as I count the days until I'm 21. I'm really not in the best of ways at the moment. Submitted by smokerideandgetpaid to homeowners Ģ023.03.08 13:57 Glad_Employment6901 I need a hug. I think it would be best if I volunteered to be on the board. I can get on the board, even though my job is very demanding and home life with a toddler is bonkers. If we have NO MONEY, how long is it gonna take us to build a reserve of $100,000-$350,000? Decades, right? Gah… The balance of the operating account, which is where monthly assessments are deposited and monthly bills are paid, currently has a balance of $3,740.98.” As of this email, after paying for the many deck repairs that were done in the complex due to the rain the association has $203.93 in the reserve account with $14,735 in pending bills to be paid for roof repairs. A fully funded reserve for an association of your size with the components that are the associations responsibility is approximately $350,000 and at the very least you should have over $100,000. roof replacement, drywall, decks, etc) that so many units needed due to the crazy rain we just had. I don’t know where the membership would expect the association to get money to make repairs (i.e. You will see that the association has no money. From property management - “See attached income statement for the month of February. The other meeting I stupidly did not attend because I misunderstood the meeting noticed and thought it was for the board only (I’m still learning the ins and outs of an HOA…), ugh.Īnyway… so long story short, I just found out we have nothing in reserves. First one I attended was a super awkward 5-10 min Zoom call cut short due to drama between HOA board and old property management company. ![]() There has been a total of two board meetings since we’ve been here in April 2022. 20th offer, so we decided to continue with escrow since we were already so deep in, and… like I said before the market was just nuts… We really liked the place, and this was our like. By the time we reveived the HOA disclosures ,we had been well underway with the escrowr… we reviewed the financial stuff and saw that they only had $27,000 in reserves budgeted for FY ending 6/30/22. Back story: We purchased our townhome in our home town in California in April 2022 when it was an insane market. ![]()
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